Post angioplasty my mother suffered from lung infection
after which she underwent a very high risk bypass surgery; Post open surgery of
the intestines, my nephew contracted Dengue; Several very close family friends,
who mean more to us than our relatives, were hospitalized. Two of them were
diagnosed with cancer and had to attend several sessions of chemotherapy.
Maternal aunt died. Important family occasions like birthdays, anniversaries,
and festivals were all spent in hospitals. After 2002, the year my dad died,
2013, was the worst year of my life.
In February, my Mom fell down and injured her knee and arm.
After this she stopped going for her daily strolls. But she remained active at
home. She has always been a brilliant homemaker. In March, two days before
Holi, I hurt my knee and couldn’t celebrate Holi with my colleagues. On the 4th of April, my mother’s
eldest sister passed away, following a heart attack. On the 12th of
April, one of our neighbours, aged 40, passed away, following a heart attack. My
brother and mother spent Vishu (Malayalee new year, the 14th of
April), with the members of the deceased neighbour’s family.
On the 31st of May, my perfectly normal nephew
suffered from extreme stomach ache and had to be rushed to a hospital, where he
had to undergo an emergency surgery. His intestines had got entangled. He
remained in bed for almost 20 days.
Things started normalizing and the kids in the family, were
planning to celebrate both my sister’s marriage anniversary and my birthday, in
the last week of June. On the 25th of June, late in the evening, my
mother experienced chest pain and had to be rushed to the nearest
hospital. Now, we had a strong prejudice
against this 5-star hospital (We now know that it is better than most
hospitals). So after ascertaining that it was safe to take her to another
hospital, we rushed her to Hospital H, in an ambulance. We were told that there was no
cardio-care facility there. It was at 3 a.m. in the morning that we managed to
find a hospital (Hospital M) where my mother could be admitted. Post angiography we were told that three of
her coronary arteries were blocked and that she would have to undergo
angioplasty. We were told by Dr.SG, that a bypass was a very risky surgery and that it should be avoided. On my birthday, the 27th of June, my mother
underwent angioplasty. On my birthday, I was praying for the life of the lady
who had given me birth. It was successful. At least that is what we were told. What
we were not told was that her arteries were shrunk beyond repair and only a
surgery could have cured her. At least
this is what the cardiologists we consulted immediately before the bypass told
us (verbally, not in writing).
My intention is not to
incriminate anyone. I shall never file a case, sue or deliberately malign any
hospital or doctor. I seriously do not have the time or energy to get into
legal hassles. Besides, I am just a lay person who knows nothing about medicine. I only want the people who read this blog post to not have blind faith in doctors.*1
May be an angioplasty, was the only solution at that time. However, I would like to bring out certain
facts. A bypass surgery costs around 1.75 lakhs in a normal hospital and 2.25
lakhs in a 5-star hospital. An angioplasty costs much more. People are often
told, like we were, that stents are imported from Western countries. So each high
quality stent costs around 1-1.5 lakhs. The metallic ones cost around 50
thousand to 1 lakh. Other costs are around 1 lakh. So a bypass is comparatively
cheaper, that’s why, I think, it is not recommended these days!*2
We visited Dr.SG at
least twice, after the angioplasty. Every time she was very rude to us. We
have been raised to respect doctors and teachers at all times, so we didn't
lose our cool. Besides, my mother was up and moving within a week. It didn't seem that she had had any heart problem. She was more active than before. It seemed to us that Dr. SG had cured her.
May be she had, temporarily. Don’t know.
Things started normalizing but again in the first week of August,
my brother-in-law had to get both his eyes operated. However, we could celebrate
Onam happily. On his birthday, in September, my nephew was busy preparing for
his exams. So, he chose to delay the celebrations. On the day of his last exam,
he fell ill again. We were told that he had dengue. He was bed ridden for 15
days.
In the first week of October, my mother suffered from
extreme cough. Since the mucus was neither yellow nor green, she was asked to
take normal medicines for cold. On the 17th of October, late in the
afternoon, when I and my brother had gone to the nearest bank in our locality,
my mother again experienced chest pain. We rushed back home and took her to Hospital
M, the place where she had undergone angioplasty. Angiography was done again and it was found that the arteries
with stents were blocked again. Now Dr.SG said that my mother will have to
undergo a bypass surgery and the members of the surgery team told us that there
was only 5 % risk involved. We were flabbergasted. We informed our family friends
in the United States, both doctors, but not cardiologists. They asked us to
consult their friend, Cardiologist A, in India, who in turn asked us to consult
one of the best cardio-surgeons in the country, Dr. VeryGood and immediately
shift her to Hospital N. My mother’s chest infection had to be cured before the
surgery could be performed. Doctors at Hospital N tried their best to treat the
chest infection for 5 days after which it was considered unsafe to wait. All
the members of my family were running from pillar to post, to arrange for six
bottles of blood, out of which 2 bottles had to be fresh warm blood, to be
transfused at the time of the surgery. Most of our family friends have
diabetes. Some were suffering from Dengue at that time. So we were finding it very hard
to arrange for blood. Finally, 1 known and 5 completely unknown people,
volunteered to donate blood. My mother had to be taken for the surgical
intervention, with the chest infection. It was a 7 hour surgery. She was saved!
She remained in hospital for a fortnight. It's been two months now, my mother is still bedridden. A lot of medicines don't suit her. My mother has always looked after others. This is probably the first time that others are looking after her.
There is no way we can thank the excellent doctors, nurses
and staff at Hospital N and the kind souls who donated blood to my mother. I am
also extremely grateful to all our family friends who have stood by my family at
all times. Some of them sat with us, for 7 hrs, at the hospital, when my mother
was being operated upon, while the others prayed at home for 7 hours. I
remember one 68 year old Punjabi family friend told my brother “Beta paise
paddey hue hain ghar par, kyon phaltoo mein bank ja raha hai, le ja”(Son, money
is lying in my home, why are you going to the bank to withdraw money? Take it
from me). When my brother refused, he said, “ Achcha chal paisey nahi le raha
toh mujhey at least khoon hi arrange karney de” (Ok if you are not taking money
from me then at least let me arrange for blood). He did that. His older son is
undergoing treatment for cancer and he had withdrawn a lot of money from the bank for
his treatment. May God bless all these
people!
PS: Every human being should have access to good healthcare facilities. There shouldn't be any class discrimination here. That's why I have referred to a certain hospital as 'Hospital 5-star'
References:
*1)
http://www.uptodate.com/contents/heart-stents-and-angioplasty-beyond-the-basics
*2)
http://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/coronary-bypass-surgery/basics/why-its-done/PRC-20023680
